2014 looks different from 2013 from my viewpoint too; I've made some heavy decisions in a few of my relationships and will be moving (with my V companions) far to the north (Seattle-ish). So, many changes to adapt to, which is always scary, but many good prospects as well.
Seems to me like you have your priorities pretty well in order. I hope your couple's retreat goes superbly.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"