Someone with too much time on their hands? That tit-for-tat is some BS, and it has to be indirectly coming from his wife. Bluebird, are they in counselling?
I think her real "need" is for you not to be around or with her husband. And she is poly, too? It seems like a bunch of double standards.
Ry - Me. Panromantic demisexual with a history of polyamorist tendencies. Married to...
Matt (Hubby) - The once distant stranger that I complement beautifully. DH of 13 years and father of our four children.