Welcome to our forum.
Sounds like you've become a central part of the poly activity in your area, with much experience to back the role up. I hope you'll find Polyamory.com to be an enhancement to the abundant connections and knowledge already in your life.
The Dating & Friendships subforum
we have might prove useful for what you're seeking. Also as you explore the various boards and threads throughout the site you'll find a lot of interesting perspectives and people to get to know.
Glad you could join us.