I am sorry you have this health issue! Good luck with the surgery decision-making.
I am glad you have a guy or two waiting in the wings for when you are healthy enough to go forward in the romance department.
And I am glad your h is so supportive of you, as he also begins his poly journey.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37