Yes. I have had that struggle.
Also-Redpepper had a thread on here about the "different types of poly" and her issues with it. That was a few years ago-and I suck at searching. But I know it existed.
I find myself very frustrated with people using any term to mean something that is not what I understand it to be *if they don't specify their alternative chosen meaning*.
Now-that said, I try to understand in myself that this is a controlling attitude. So I try to manage myself and not allow myself to hold others accountable to my definitions. But my natural instinct is frustration.
"Love As Thou Wilt"