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Old 11-02-2013, 08:07 AM
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Piroska Piroska is offline
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Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat View Post
Just to be a pedant... if he's your Dom, or even sorta, then wouldn't he get the final word over what you call him? Seems like a dominant saying "don't call me your Dom" and then you doing it anyway is the epitome of disregarding the power exchange...
This is true. I relayed your comment to him, and he agreed with you.

However, when I asked what he preferred me to refer to him as, he said I should refer to him as whatever I was most comfortable with. I said I was comfortable with Dom, but I would stop if he preferred. He said no, it's fine. (Sigh.) It's a new relationship, he's new at this, and so... sometimes I'm at a loss.
current relationships:
Guy - Dom/husband
Minx - sort of dating
Cru - (no longer dating)
Lee - Guy's girlfriend
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