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Old 11-02-2013, 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Piroska View Post
In fetish/bdsm circles I tend to refer to Guy as my Master, and Morp as my Dom (even though Morp considers himself more of a switch or kinkster and being called a dom is not exactly his cup of tea; he's dominant with me so it's as close to accurate as I can get in one word).
Just to be a pedant... if he's your Dom, or even sorta, then wouldn't he get the final word over what you call him? Seems like a dominant saying "don't call me your Dom" and then you doing it anyway is the epitome of disregarding the power exchange...
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