Originally Posted by london
Why? So if it goes pear shaped, you can blame them? Why do you feel its their job to approach you? I think you're.wrong about that.
I don't know why I think that. I guess I'm used to being the pursued not the pursuer. I figure if they get rejected by me, they have each other for comfort, and also they are just more outgoing people, I'm kind of shy. But yes, I see the folly in that thinking.