Originally Posted by MichiganMusic
Thank you all for the responses - I would like to respond to each one after work.
I just wanted to make a delineation that I hadn't made clear - I am in favor of an open relationship for all parties (dating/sex) - I am speaking only in terms of long-term relationships (i.e. marriage).
I shouldn't think that would make much difference, there are plenty of women around with two husbands in very stable relationships, FMF isn't always the most stable of poly configurations, if it is stability you want I would opt for a brother husband (Polyandry men are great.....)
Again, I am not knocking polygyny but I think you have to examine your motivation because what you are saying now looks a bit wishy-washy and weak.