I dont know if I haven't expressed myself properly or what is the problem, but I don't like how you suggest that I got into a second relationship just to strategically keep this person for the sex.
I started casual sex and it ended up in a wonderful relationship because I really liked the person and now I have doubts about what is gonna happen in our relationship.
I know I can have casual sex with other people and satisfy my urges, but that is not my question, I came to ask for opinion about how to deal with the situation of sudden low desire in a relationship.
How to proceed, what can help us.
This is not only about me getting what I want but in the long run making my relationships as fullfilling for everyone as possible.
We talked yesterday with my first BF and he said we gotta take care of us allways being stuck in a routine and that we have to change that.