Welcome to our forum.
Seems like a good sign that you're dating individually; hopefully you'll find many like-minded friends on this site. Sounds like a triad is the kind of configuration you're hoping to arrive at. In case you ever receive that dreaded label "unicorn hunters," here's an article to help put it in perspective: http://davidlnoble.com/so-somebody-c...nicorn-hunter/
Hope you find the right woman for you and make lifelong friends with her. Glad you could join us.