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Old 11-01-2013, 03:50 AM
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You need to start thinking about the other person. So far, you want them to have sex with you both, stop their feelings from going too far and plough the lines in your marriage. What about them? What can you offer them? You say you don't like casual sex but any sort of romantic attachment s forbidden in your relationship. Doesn't that automatically make the sex casual? You have feelings for this guy that or hubby doesn't. Why can't you acknowledge that you are individuals that feel differently so a blanket ruling isn't going to work very effectively? What makes sense to me is you carry on as you are with some progression of the relationship with you and the other guy. Progression that reflects your feelings for him.
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