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Old 10-31-2013, 06:44 PM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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I def want to talk with my hubby about this, no question.
Good.

If these are the limits you have to work within:


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He has said in the past that he does not want a boyfriend or a 3-person relationship.
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I am not overly interested in casual sex. I find it cold and unfulfilling.
Then...

1) Could stay monogamous and stop engaging in "lose lose" behavior.

2) Or open so he has casual sex elsewhere and you do not.

3) Or open so you have meaningful BF elsewhere and he does not.

4) Or both 2 and 3.

I'm sure it is hard to feel and process, but the behaviors are pretty straight up. Talk to him.

Hang in there.
Galagirl
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