I have never posted on a forum before but thought I would join and jump in.
My husband and I have been discussing Poly and creating a Triad without having that third person yet. We have never really had a mono relationship, but never fully open either. We have been in the swinging lifestyle for years, but are not active much anymore.
We are searching for that third person (a woman ) and trying to read and learn as much as possible before/or if we meet her. I have always felt I could live this lifestyle with having a third person in my relationship