Originally Posted by TrollE
also, i love being sexual with friends. it feels safer, smarter and often sexier cause you've had the chance to get to know each other.
in your experience folks, can you get both and maintain that long term? isnt that what what marriage was supposed to be about?
We've been totally successful in this regard. Probably for the reasons you mention (safer, smarter etc). To us it feels as natural as going out to dinner together - just a bit of a different menu