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Old 10-30-2013, 11:01 AM
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She's a guest, and not paying rent - I wouldn't worry too much about that 30-day thing which seems to only apply to roommates or someone you've agreed to share a home with, and certainly does not apply in most states. People have a right to privacy and to have those in their home that they choose, and can change the locks and get a restraining order if they want! The OP did not agree to this shit. The so-called girlfriend doesn't have a leg to stand on.
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