@london: This is indeed what I struggle with, when I say I worry over the meaning of his actions. I ascribe to the whole "they speak louder than words" and whatnot. Words are wind, as they say.
I worry that it is an indication of him, in fact, being not that into me—and you may be right. I have often felt him resistant to compromise (even before we opened up), and this is something that will be coming up in our next convo. I suppose it'll make or break us, because in love as I am, willingness to compromise is something I can't, well, compromise on
One must feel supported and cared for, which I haven't felt this past week, and at a vulnerable part of our relationship.
Much thanks for putting it so plainly—and oh, how well I respond to lists!