Originally Posted by london
Yeah, thinking that if you just badger them that little bit more, they'll crack, isn't the best foundation for any relationship. He did project a voice of his own, he said no but you completely ignored him and asked for ways you can make him do what you want.
I don't think that's entirely fair. I just wanted to make sure there were no misunderstandings about what I was suggesting. For someone who's never been exposed to polyamory, I could see a knee-jerk reaction.
It's not like I was texting ten times a day like, "WHY DON'T YOU LOVE ME!?" I have some dignity.