Originally Posted by merry
We didn’t really start things ‘right’ – there were no real discussions about the relationships or any sort of loose poly agreement/understanding, because very quickly, I started having a lot of health problems that took over our attentions.
Awwwww Merry - I really feel your pain also. Literally !
You are in an awful place right now but at least you are not alone ! You have 2 people who are doing everything (it sounds) in their power to support you. Some are not as fortunate.
Would it be ok to ask..........how old are you ?
Have you always been prone to health problems - even if of a more minor nature ?
Hang in there girl. People really do care.
May have more to offer later.