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Old 10-28-2013, 12:36 AM
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Originally Posted by MostlyMarried View Post
It's been two days and I've heard nothing back . . . does it seem like he was being honest that it was just about my being married, or is he genuinely just not interested in me, and used my marriage as a convenient excuse? What should my next steps be . . . ?
Does it really matter what his reasons are? No means no. Move on.

Next time you are interested in someone, check your need to have what you want when you want it. Dating means there will always be potential for rejection. You probably came off as too aggressive, demanding, needy - or all three.
The world opens up... when you do.

"Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me." ~Bryan Ferry
"Love and the self are one . . ." ~Leo Buscaglia "

An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:

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