She let him come see you ON THEIR ANNIVERSARY.
She does have feelings wants and needs too.
I get you are emotional right now but to me you are coming across a bit selfish.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.