Okay, you're fine with the thing about calendars, so that's good; no conflict there.
Sir, I do read your posts, I really really do. I mean, not on every thread, but certainly on any thread that I respond to. Unless it only counts as reading if I also understand it correctly? Well, I don't always comprehend things like I should; that's a fact.
Re: SNeacail ... maybe she's drawing a little from her frustrations with her husband, and projecting that onto the thread? I couldn't say.
As for me purportedly trying to create an argument: if I am doing that, then I'm really shooting myself in the foot, because for me at least, arguments are really wearisome.
I don't suppose we could just agree to let bygones be bygones and return our attention to the many good/edifying thoughts people have been sharing on this thread? It's overall been seeming to me like such a positive dialog, I'd like that to continue.
In all sincerity,
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"