Originally Posted by ColorsWolf
I wonder if there are people who have relationships and they actually consider their own preferences as "limitations"?~
I refer to those as "personal boundaries". They have nothing to do with my other relationships and everything to do with me.
I have to go back and read Kevin's reply...I think there is some good stuff in there.
I consider us to be "open" but there are some limitations...that would have to be negotiated. For instance, "fluid bonding" - we have a "condoms except amongst the three of us" rule - which is open to renegotiation if everyone agrees...or we go to condoms amongst us.
There are also things that we all agree would be ethically "bad idea" - for instance me or my boys sleeping with or forming relationships with my clients.
back to reading the thread...