Poor Butch is miserable. But he is putting on his tough face. Things between us are going well. He has been trying very hard to respect my boundaries.
Murf is doing well too. He was cute the other night while I was at work. He was worried that he doesn't tell me enough how much I mean to him. When I got home from work at 1am on Thursday he pulled me close when I crawled into bed with him and told me he was glad I was home. He was worried about me and doesn't like sleeping without me.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.