Well considering I have what your wife what your wife wants I would think you would consider my advice.
Bitter please. I have 2 husbands who get along as friends and without being needy and clingy.
Sweetheart I am living your wifes dream. You keep on your couple privledge lined path are going to kill her dream.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.