Originally Posted by Firedancer
(I'm sorry, I don't, she is an adult that makes her own decisions). I am willing to continue feeling out the situation for now, but I am sad that nothing is really what it seemed. I like her enough, but enough is not what we are looking for. I haven't even had a moment alone with her to tell her how I feel, instead my BF is the in between (and sometimes words and feelings get twisted)
Not much advice but I totally understand your point. You've got to remove your BF for a bit and talk directly with her. I wouldn't recommend having her move in. Major red flag. If she's not honest with her other guy what makes you think she will be with you?