Originally Posted by vandalin
Maybe it is time to call it quits and work on finding that switch to turn off the feelings of "more" that keep getting me in trouble and increasing the heartache. This is so not good for me and my blood pressure and it is most definitely not good for the baby.
Feelings don't follow instructions and don't easily get turned off, but hurt feelings do heal. Treat it like you'd treat a wound. Care for it, clean it, give it time to heal.