Originally Posted by bookbug
So what I am trying to say, is that your fantasy of being together with just your lady love is just that: a fantasy. It does not exist in this dimension.
I think I understand what you're trying to convey, and I completely agree. The person that I think
I would have if we were exclusive is a mirage. Her husband helps to make her who she is. And if she didn't have him, it would affect the dynamic of our
relationship, as well. Change one factor, and the whole dynamic shifts.
Thank you for your reply. It's helpful to hear from someone in a similar situation. I'm so sorry for your heartache. I hope things continue to get better for you.