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Old 10-17-2013, 09:43 PM
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Originally Posted by FullofLove1052 View Post
The only person who had an issue with it was Si, and my best friend told her that she was there before her and would be there long after her. (Never dreamed she would be right.) She was never keen on Si because she felt like she could not be trusted.
I believe Matt tried to tell you the same thing. Listen to your friends and husband, they definitely can see things about people that you block out. This is good information to know for the future.

It kind of makes me wonder if Matt's issues are with poly as a whole or more specifically with Si/how she conducted herself, the lack of balance, shitty communication, and the piss poor the management.
AND how you conducted yourself!

There is a lot to be said for not feeling threatened and KNOWING you can trust someone to respect your primary relationship. Obviously not the time to go jumping off new bridges, but it does give you something to talk about and discuss with the counselor.

Don't think too hard on this, just enjoy the Non-Sexual Girlfriend status.
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