I do not do the whole primary /secondary relationship thing. I love Murf as much as my legal husband. Hell. I consider him my second husband and treat him accordingly. If Murf and I are both happy there is no reason we cannot continue on forever.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.