'Love many, trust few, learn to paddle your own canoe' - I don't know where it was from, just that an friend from ages ago used to use it. It seemed very apposite!
Schizofish, 42yo female, in polyship with:
-Njord, 51M mostly LDR lover
-Wayland, 40M FWB, who is in a LTR with Odette
-Meili, 42M lover