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Old 03-10-2010, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Ceoli View Post
Agreeing to be a triad does not a triad make. It sounds to me like you're trying to slam a square relationship peg into a round emotional hole. Setting out a goal for a particular structure without *really* knowing if it's the right arrangement usually ends in heartbreak.
Yes... exactly! This!

What was the reason you decided that it had to be a triad? What does a triad configuration give you that a V doesn't? Is a "V" not acceptable to one or more of you, and if so, why not?

It's that same thing about prescriptive relationships. Emotions rarely follow directions.
... and doing so causes resentment and various other forms of very bad friction and tension.

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