Originally Posted by bonobosfemale
He questioned whether he was "just my anchor" and whether I could only have the relationship I have with Jim because of him and that I can always run back. Well of course I can. Is being my anchor bad? .
The concept of being someone's anchor so they can explore the world and have something nice and stable to return to disturbs me as well LOL! Your partner and I have some things in common it seems.
Thank you for sharing this.