Originally Posted by WhatHappened
At issue is whether you'll continue to be poly and sleep with your brother in law, right? If you became monogamous, would that require sending the kids back to a bad area?
No. I don't believe becoming mono means the kids go back. Neverwhere has already said he'll let Amanda continue living here no matter what. But I think because he doesn't have any other relationships besides me he would prefer I were mono now as well.
I did ask him if this would be an issue (me dating Mark) if he had a gf outside the house or if Amanda didn't break up with him and he said probably not. So I wonder of he's just frustrated right now.
Neverwhere - exH, we have a son together.
Amanda - Neverwhere's 1st wife and one of the reasons my marriage to him ended. They have three sons together.
Mark - Neverwhere's brother. We are dating. He is mono.
JBR - My boyfriend of 8 months, also poly, has kids, we live together.