Originally Posted by polytriad
Polyamory : Roadmaps For The Clueless And Hopeful - Anthony D. Ravenscroft -
I have this book and you're the only person I've seen recommend it besides myself. I am not very far into it, but unlike the Amazon reviews claim, i do not think that one has to read it cover-to-cover in order for it to make sense. Yes, the font size is kind of small, but I can flip through it and land on almost any page and start reading and it makes sense to me.
What I like most about this book is that it is not an endorsement of polyamory and goes out of its way to address the pitfalls. Also, the things it talks about can be applied to any relationship even if you end up deciding that poly is not for you.