We are a couple who is very sexually in tune. Yes we love sex, no this is not all about it. Although it plays a major part in our lives, our life does not revolve around it. Ideally I (the wife) would prefer a young lady like myself, someone with a good head on her shoulders, educated, who is open minded, funny, outgoing, and has a healthy sexual appetite. Someone to go on trips with, and hang out with. He (my husband) would like the same, although she would be more my girlfriend than his. Does this answer your question?