Murf had a female friend who he went on 2 dates with 6 months before we met. He decided he wasn't into her and stopped seeing her. Since they knew each other since high school and share a distant social circle to remain friends.
A year into our relationship we changed our relationship status into in a relationship on Facebook. Butch isn't on Facebook. When S saw this she immediately messaged me and began accusing Murf of being a douche bag who would break my heart. And a whole lot more. I answered her with a thanks for your concern message but since we had been together at that point a year, I was sure he wasn't a douche.
Well that set her off and a huge shit storm began. With her trying to ruin his relationship anyway she could. All because he had moved on.
OP you are his EX. Leave his current relationship alone. I too question your motives to stick your nose in your ex boyfriends relationship. Especially since it sounds like he is happy.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.