Originally Posted by Inyourendo
I learned the hard way to butt out. I lost a very good friend. When shit hits the fan, you are the one who's going to take the heat. The term "dont kill the messenger" came from somewhere.
Oh yes, I can understand that too, I have had friends who would rather cut you out than believe you, I know exactly who they are, it really depends on the intimacy of their relationship and no one is in a better place to know that than the OP.