You're running the risk as being seen as a jealous ex.
Why not confront Erika with the info.. Your friend could be wrong and you could be passing along false info.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.