Originally Posted by AlbertaBea
Apparently Ned is Erika's primary boyfriend, but Tim doesn't know about him
This is the only part which would get my attention. The other stuff just sounds like drama to me.
If one of my good friends is dating someone who they think is monogamous with them but I know this not to be true - I'm probably going to say something. It would be the same if they were in a business deal which I learned was shifty and would recommend they look more closely.
Me: male, 43, straight, non-hierarchical, independent