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Old 10-11-2013, 07:20 PM
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You have to do what is right for your life and situation.

Me I do not play the primary secondary game. Murf is not a passing fling or phase for me.

I try to spend my time 50/50 but with my guys work schedule that is not possible. I spend approx 14 days a month with Murf. Has been that way since the beginning. I spend every other weekend with him. Then a night or two during the week.

I also do holidays with him and also his family. My children tag along when Butch is working.
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40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.
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