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Old 10-11-2013, 05:51 PM
Revkah Revkah is offline
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Default Primary and Secondary

I have a few questions. I placed a post up a few weeks ago, got some great advice and insight.
Me and plan A have a V, where I have him and plan B the bf
Things started rough but are getting easier and more fun to be honest.
Plan A and Plan B (again these are just nicknames) are now becoming friends themselves which is making things both easier and even fun. It is so nice being able to hang out and have a good time and all of us seem to be coexisting well.
I was just wondering what is the best way to split the time between the two? How do you guys split your time? Right now that seems to be the hardest part.
Plan A of course wants to have his time alone with me but so does Plan B and I feel because me and Plan B are still in the NRE stage that we are inseparable and he respects when Plan A (husband) wants alone time with me, but sometimes it gets a little tricky.
Do you schedule these times? Example: right now plan B and I have wed nights. And then every once in a while he hangs out but leaves later in the evening.
our schedules are hard because we all work a lot but Plan B wishes to have more time and sometimes we are in limbo as to when we can see each other. Any advice?
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