I humbly redress my previous post to include Ceoli (and by extension other Brits, need to be inclusive here) in the list of those having "more sense" ;-)
Jeesh, I just found a site http://www.lovemore.com/
which is run by some people in the NEXT TOWN to the south of me, maybe 15 minutes away. Small freakin' planet, eh?
Ceoli, you mention other polyamory boards. We know the the polyamory.com board is the best [shameless huckstering] but might you have any recommendations? I'm NOT looking for "personals", but for places with wise people who've already been down the road I'm on and know the territory. Actual geographic location isn't an issue, but I did note a bunch of Aussie links when googling around.
Thanks again, everybody! Mucho appreciado!