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Old 03-06-2010, 04:04 PM
GroundedSpirit GroundedSpirit is offline
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Hello How - and welcome !

I think Imaginary's post was par excellence ! Covered it all well.
The compersion thing is huge If you can cling to that you'll make everyone around you have a nicer life.

And really - if you think about it, if - as Imaginary pointed out - you have no negative concerns about this guy - what harm is a little "romp" ? It won't change what the 3 of you have together. Unless you make it change

The only concern here of course is the fact that he's got a mate at home and how is THAT going to play out ? Last thing anyone needs is more drama in their life. Something to think about.

Good luck

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