Originally Posted by sdguitarguy
You might check out the "I don't like my metamour"
thread as a start.
I feel your pain. I have had the issue of "If him, why me?" with one of her bfs that I dislike. But I don't deal with him and I've come to terms with the fact that she does like him.
Thanks. If i understood correctly, PolyAus' problem is somewhat different than my current problem. The issue for her seems to be that she just doesn't get along in general with her metamour. OTOH I do get along with my current metamour just fine, its the sex or intimate part btw him and my wife that is problematic for me. That and the fact that things are going in a direction where I really didn't want them to go.