Thank you for your welcome
Thank you for your welcome and your encouragement for the language.
That's right, I lived a lot of experiences and I'm very glad if I can help someone. I don't believe that I can give advices but each one can pick up in my experience what seems good for him/her.
About commune, we never use the word "poly", we are what we are, we feel what we feel, it's a start. But, yes, most of them are poly.
PS : The greatest gift for me : that you correct my language mistakes