RedPepper posted this http://rhetcomppolydiss.wordpress.co...nest-monogamy/
on her blog and I love it.
Intentionality and critical thought in relationships is something I'm so much into. It's been a long time since I've lived a conventional life and I'm used to the need to consider, weigh options and think as clearly as possible about what I want from my life and how I want to go about living it. This resonated with me in many ways.