Originally Posted by london
You want two separate relationships, right? If so, why would they need to be in any way compatible?
Personally, I would never try to be with two people totally incompatible. I've done that before, and the headaches involved in trying to keep both people apart...and satisfied...eventually lead me to break up with one of them. I felt like I was living two separate lives...and I wasn't able to handle it. Especially as busy as I was with work...and a social life that didn't always involve one or both of them. It was just too much for me.
I don't need them to both be in love with each other, but I do need them to at least get along.