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Old 10-08-2013, 12:55 PM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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At one point we did do "date" nights where the kids were with sitters and we went out separately on a date and stayed overnight with the other's spouse. We did this only twice before she said she wasn't comfortable with that.
Did anyone ask her "I see that it makes you uncomfortable. I am sorry. What about it makes you uncomfortable? How could this be alleviated? How could I/we help support you so you could become comfortable? Are you willing to try? Or not willing at this time?"

My personal feelings are that I think she has insecurities about herself. And BF has told me that she worries that he compares us and that she is afraid he may like some things better with me.
And what does he do to reassure her?

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