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Old 10-08-2013, 11:56 AM
london london is offline
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The problem is that it's often unrealistic to expect your partner's feelings to evolve at a rate that makes you comfortable. Even when they agree, in practice that sort of restriction causes resentment. All you can do now is decide what you need from both people to maintain your individual relationships with them. I'd steer clear of trying to dictate how and when they interact with one another and focus on how and when they, as individuals, interact with you. You'll see how willing they are to meet your needs and maintain the relationships they have with you.
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